Mack Benge, Staff Writer & Illustrator
It can be hard making friends in new spaces. A college campus is one of those places. Meeting people is one of the most exciting things about college, but it can also be intimidating. As you read this article, I hope you find a new way to make a friend.
1. Join a Club!
One of the best things about Saint Martin’s University is the clubs! There are a variety of clubs that everyone can join in on. There are clubs catering to your major such as the Biology Club, Literary Studies Club, Future Educators Club and there are clubs that are more oriented to the self such as the Black Student Union, LatinX Student Alliance, and Pacific Islanders Club etc. There are also other clubs like Dungeons and Dragons Club and the Barbell Club. The best way to get in contact with these clubs and the many others Saint Martin’s University offers is to go to the Involvement Fairs where each club is represented.
2. Go to Club Events!
Even if you are not a math major or know much about math, attend a Math Club event! Getting yourself out there in new areas is a great way to meet new people. Also it’s a great way to get a new experience! There is a saying that you need to attend at least 3 times. The first time you go, it might be awkward and you might feel out of place. But by the second or third time you will start recognizing people and they will start recognizing you!
3. Put the Phone Down
Phones are a security blanket for many of us. When we feel awkward or uncomfortable, it’s easy to pick up a phone and disengage from the world around us. It’s a great comfort but it also can prevent you from making face-to-face connections with others around you. By putting your phone in your pocket, it signals to others around you that you are present and ready to listen.
4. Introduce Yourself
In new environments it can be scary to introduce yourself. But a lot of the time just going to a club event isn’t enough. You have to speak up! It is important to remember that if you are struggling with introducing yourself, someone else there is too. They are probably just as anxious as you. If no one takes the first step, the opportunity to make a new friend will be gone. Introductions don’t need to be complicated. Say something like, “Hi, my name is ____ and we have Art together,” or “This is my first NAMI Club meeting, yours too?”
Don’t worry! You got this! Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. Good Luck making new friends!
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